LOVE - Part One

LOVE - Part One

Today I want to talk about LOVE, that feeling that gives us several different sensations at the same time... yes, LOVE can lift us to Celestial Paradise or drag us to Astral Hell... it depends on the circumstances...

When we fall in love, when we give our heart to someone, and by that someone we are reciprocated, we believe we are in seventh heaven, where Happiness will never leave our side, right? After all, we are next to the person we love body and soul, and we feel connected to them in such a way that we cannot imagine how we could have lived until that moment away from this person who completes us... isn't that right? When we meet someone who captivates us, we are as if lost in the world if we are not next to the loved one... yes. We wake up, we sleep, we do our daily tasks always with that someone in our thoughts... our desire is to be all the time next to that person who makes us feel so good... we keep counting the minutes until the time of our meeting arrives soon... but the clock, as evil as it is, decides to walk very slowly, to make us even more anxious for the moment when we are going to meet our LOVE... and, when the time finally arrives... My God in Heaven, how wonderful! There are hugs, kisses, vows of eternal love, walks hand in hand... a simple flower offered is the best of all the gifts we can be given... or else a bonbon... or even a candy, it can be strawberry or cherry... it doesn't matter what it is, what matters is that our LOVE shows, with that gesture, how much it loves us, isn't it true?

But life is life. And, after some time, comes the first disagreements between us and our "better half", sometimes more expensive than half... and how we suffer with each breakup... and what happiness we feel with each return! Anything can cause our separation... a look at someone else who is passing by our side is reason enough for a quarrel between us. It's just that we feel insecure, and our partner's look at other people, in our head, demonstrates that he is comparing us with others and that he may not be that connected to us... and the fear of losing our love makes us it makes us become hostile to our partner... sometimes the disagreement is so strong that there is no return... we are left with a broken heart... and until it recomposes itself, we remain lonely, brooding over the love that didn't work out. ..

Well, if the breakup happened after a fight, at least we have someone to blame for the end of the relationship... it's really hard, it's when the person decides to walk away from us without a fight, without discussion, using that phrase that hurts more than anything else. any sharp object would do it... "it's not you... it's me... I'm sure you'll find a better person, who will make you truly happy..." my God... that sentence ends the world from anyone. You start to feel like crap, thinking to yourself "but what did I do wrong? Why did you leave me like this? How am I going to find someone else? It's him/her that I love! I'll never fall in love with him/her again nobody else!" And a week later, there you are, with another true love in your life...

Yes, LOVE can make us feel like the most important person in the world, or the most miserable of all, depending on whether or not we have the heart of the one we desire... we always have the coveted person by our side. Well, if we're in love with someone, and that someone doesn't respond to us... well, then we enter the Astral Hell I mentioned at the beginning of this chronicle. But that's a topic for another day...