EVERYBODY'S UNIVERSE

 

EVERYBODY'S UNIVERSE

There are no two people alike on the face of the Earth, this is a fact that cannot be denied. Each person is a Universe apart, with their own dreams and desires. Even if many of these dreams coincide with those of those close to her, they will never be exactly the same, they will always differ in some points. Yes, everyone has their own way of seeing, of feeling the world around them. And that's why coexistence between people is so difficult. Everyone has heard the famous phrase "it's so complicated to deal with a human being"... it's not that it's complicated, although it really is. The problem is that each person has their own view of what happens around them. And, logically, he has "his opinion formed about everything", as Raul Seixas would say... Yes, when we talk about something, no matter what it is, we are exposing much more than our point of view... we are exposing our beliefs, our truths. And that, my dears, is something instinctive, you don't even realize you're acting like that, you don't even have any idea why that action is. And it's so instinctual that you usually don't think long before you speak. And it ends up hurting the people around you, because even if what you said is your view of the world, your private world, it is not how other people see life. Sometimes it is a simple word, pronounced by you without any further connotation beyond the idea you want to express. However, each person processes the information received from their environment in a different way, and ends up receiving that innocent message from you as something offensive... because you triggered a trigger in the memories of your fellow man where the memories are not so pleasant for him ... and then ... well, the most you can do is apologize. And be careful with your words so that no one else feels hurt. But this is not a very simple exercise to do. In fact, if you keep checking yourself all the time so as not to hurt anyone, you end up becoming neurotic. Because you will always pronounce some phrase, some word, that will awaken sadness, agony, anger or revolt in someone who is close to you. Because, as I said at the beginning, each person is a Universe apart... and, unfortunately, we can't read the minds of the people around us and that's why we don't know exactly how they feel, until it's too late... .